I Prefer to Work with People Who Played Team Sports

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by Brian Lee on December 10, 2007

The Realization

A few years ago, I came to the realization that just about all of my close friends and everyone that I really “clicked” with in the professional world had played some form of team sports when they were a kid. They all weren’t necessarily stand-outs, but they had at least played on a team at one time or another.

It’s not like I ask people what sport they played before deciding if I can be friends with them or not; I’ve just identified an interesting tendency that’s pretty reliable.

Thanks to My Parents

I’ve also become much more appreciative that my parents pushed me to play sports when I was kid. I remember a few times that I resisted; but today, I can’t think of another activity that did so much to prepare me for life.

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Are You a Conformist or an Anti-Conformist Conformist?

24 September 2007
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Duality

The most ancient social duality is the tendency of humans to split into one of two groups:

The Conformists: who, out of fear of humiliation, band together in like-minded packs; dressing, talking, and thinking in the acceptable way of the majority.

or

The Anti-Conformist Conformists: who, out of fear of humiliation, band together in like-minded packs; dressing, talking, and thinking in the acceptable way of the minority.

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How Husker Football has Contributed to Nebraska’s Character

10 September 2007
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I grew up in a small suburban town on the southernmost tip of Omaha, where the rolling hills of the Missouri valley meet the flats of the Platte River basin.

To the north of our modest home was the largest city in Nebraska: almost a half-million people in a rapidly expanding matrix of communities gobbling up the unlimited real estate of the western plains. To the south, only a bike ride’s distance over the hill, were majestic cornfields planted in one of the few remaining reservoirs of rich black topsoil on earth.

A Thousand Miles from the Rest of the World

If you look at a map of the United States, Nebraska is about as far away from New York, Los Angeles, Texas, or any foreign country as you could possibly get in the United States. Glitz, fame, and fortune were just things that we saw on TV.

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Why Smart People do Dumb Things

23 July 2007
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Isn’t it strange how smart people tend to do dumb things? I guess it’s one of those paradoxes of life when a computer genius locks himself out of his house, or a science whiz can’t remember where she left the pencil she used two minutes before.
It’s almost as if geniuses are using so much [...]

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No One Feels Sorry for Someone Who Feels Sorry for Himself

12 June 2007
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It’s funny how empathy works. It’s easy to feel for someone who’s completely unselfsish and sweeps their own pain under a rug; but the second they demand our sorrow, our will to empathize with them vanishes.
Paradox
This phoenomenon seems to work against logic. We empathize with (and help) those who need it least (or [...]

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